Embrace the Power of Empathy As A Leader

Brian Fink
4 min readJun 12, 2024

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Ah, remote work — the brave new world where we dress business on top and party on the bottom, where the office commute is a 20-second walk to the dining table, and where Zoom fatigue is the new water cooler talk. But amidst the virtual backgrounds and the mute button mishaps lies a profound opportunity: developing leadership skills. Yes, you can cultivate your inner leader without ever having to worry about the nightmare of rush hour traffic.

In the digital age, communication isn’t just key; it’s the whole darn door. Remote work strips away the non-verbal cues and impromptu office chats, leaving you with emails, Slack messages, and video calls. Effective leaders must over-communicate, and do so clearly, concisely, and compellingly. Be the person who writes emails that are not just read, but actually enjoyed. Channel your inner Don Draper, minus the whiskey, and craft messages that inspire and motivate.

Empathy isn’t just a buzzword thrown around by HR. It’s the bedrock of effective leadership, especially in a remote setting where you can’t just pop into someone’s office to check in. Understand that your team members are juggling work with personal lives in ways that are more visible than ever before. Maybe Jeff’s toddler decided his dad’s presentation was the perfect canvas for finger painting. Or perhaps Sarah’s dealing with intermittent Wi-Fi that makes her sound like a malfunctioning robot. Show understanding, flexibility, and support — traits that make people want to follow you, even through the shakiest internet connections.

Great leaders don’t just do — they delegate. And in remote work, delegation is an art form. It’s not about offloading tasks but about empowering your team. Trust them, give them ownership, and provide the resources they need. Remember, a micromanaging leader in a remote setting is just a helicopter parent with Wi-Fi. Instead, be the coach who guides from the sidelines, celebrating victories and offering constructive feedback after the game.

You may not have a corner office, but you can still have a commanding presence. This doesn’t mean being the loudest voice on every call or flooding the team chat with your every thought. It means being consistently visible, available, and engaged. Show up to meetings prepared and on time. Turn your camera on (yes, even if you’re having a bad hair day). Respond to messages promptly. Be the leader who’s there without being overbearing.

Remote work can sometimes feel like herding cats. You can’t physically oversee projects, so you need to build a culture where accountability is the norm. Set clear expectations and deadlines. Use project management tools that track progress without micromanaging. Encourage a sense of ownership in your team. When everyone knows what’s expected and feels responsible for their part, the whole machine runs smoothly — even if it’s powered by Wi-Fi and coffee.

Leadership isn’t a destination; it’s a journey. In the fast-evolving landscape of remote work, staying ahead means continuous learning. Attend virtual seminars, read voraciously, and seek feedback. Encourage your team to do the same. The best leaders are perpetual students, always adapting and evolving with the times.

One of the biggest challenges of remote work is maintaining a sense of team cohesion. Foster a sense of community by creating opportunities for connection beyond work tasks. Virtual coffee breaks, team-building exercises, and casual chat channels can go a long way. Celebrate successes, recognize contributions, and make sure everyone feels valued. A cohesive team is a motivated team, and a motivated team is a productive one.

In a remote setting, your actions speak louder than ever. Be the embodiment of the work ethic, values, and culture you want to see. Show up with enthusiasm, meet your deadlines, and demonstrate the flexibility you expect from others. Your team will follow suit not because they have to, but because they’re inspired to.

Remote work isn’t a barrier to developing leadership skills; it’s an incubator. It forces you to hone your communication, empathy, delegation, presence, accountability, learning, community-building, and leading by example in ways that the traditional office environment never could. Embrace the challenge, leverage the tools at your disposal, and remember: the best leaders aren’t defined by where they work, but by how they lead.

Now, go forth and conquer your virtual kingdom, one Zoom call at a time. And maybe, just maybe, consider putting on some pants.

Hi there, I’m Brian, and in addition to this Medium, I wrote Talk Tech To Me. I take on the stress and strain of complex technology concepts and simplify them for the modern recruiter.

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Brian Fink

Executive Recruiter. ✈ #ATL ↔ #SF ✈ Building companies is my favorite. Opinions are my own. Responsibility is freedom. 🖖