Relationships Are Your Currency

Brian Fink
2 min readOct 1, 2023

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Alright, let’s cut the fluff. We live in a world where the horsepower of your LinkedIn is just as potent as your college degree. Your skill set? That’s table stakes. The real game? Your ability to navigate the human ecosystem within your workspace. Transitioning roles isn’t just about changing your email signature — it’s about recalibrating your social radar.

Identifying the Chessboard’s Kings and Queens

Your new role is a chessboard. Knowing how to move your pawn is good, but recognizing the kings, queens, and even the knights? That’s the real genius. Start by mapping out the power players. Who calls the shots? Who influences the influencers? You need to know.

The First Impression Doctrine

Introduce yourself, sure, but do it with panache. Don’t just regurgitate your resume. Share your narrative — why you’re here, what drives you. People don’t invest in resumes. They invest in stories.

Join the Tribes

Relevant groups and events aren’t just calendar fillers — they’re goldmines. But here’s the key: don’t just attend, ENGAGE. Because while being present might earn you a nod, active participation earns respect.

Trust: Your Real KPI

In the age of AI and automation, trust is the one metric that remains defiantly human. Every interaction, every project, every coffee chat is an opportunity to cement your credibility. Don’t chase short-term wins at the expense of long-term trust.

Ears Over Mouth

Listen more than you speak. It’s tempting to hit the ground running with your brilliant ideas, but pace yourself. Absorb. Understand the landscape. The best influencers aren’t just great talkers — they’re impeccable listeners.

Wrap-Up

The modern corporate jungle isn’t tamed with skill alone. It requires a deft human touch. Building relationships isn’t just ‘networking 101’, it’s the very bedrock of enduring professional success. Remember, your title might get you in the door, but it’s your network that propels you forward.

So, gear up, recalibrate, and dive headfirst into the exhilarating dance of human connection. The board’s set; it’s your move.

Brian Fink is the author of Tech Talk To Me. He takes on the stress and strain of complex technology concepts and simplifies them for the modern recruiter. Fink’s impassioned wit and humor tackle the highs and lows of technical recruiting with a unique perspective — a perspective intended to help you find, engage, and partner with professionals.

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Brian Fink
Brian Fink

Written by Brian Fink

Executive Recruiter. ✈ #ATL ↔ #SF ✈ Building companies is my favorite. Opinions are my own. Responsibility is freedom. 🖖

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