Sometimes We All Need a Break

Brian Fink
3 min readNov 11, 2024

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n the marathon of life, where the pavement is paved with endless meetings, relentless deadlines, and the incessant pings of digital notifications, the art of hitting pause is as undervalued as it is essential. Yes, even in a world that idolizes the grind, there’s a profound case to be made for stopping. Not a gentle deceleration, but a full, screeching halt.

We live in an era of relentless pursuit. A pursuit of success, of innovation, of perpetual connectivity. But what is the real cost of this non-stop race? Burnout, a term tossed around so frequently it’s practically lost all meaning, isn’t just a buzzword — it’s a canary in the coal mine. And if the canary is dead, maybe it’s time to stop mining.

The Illusion of Perpetual Motion

We glorify those who never stop: the CEOs who sleep four hours a night, the entrepreneurs who multitask as if they have an endless supply of cognitive bandwidth, the young professionals who grind through weekends as if Monday is just a myth. But let’s break down this glorification. What are we actually celebrating? Endurance? Or are we just applauding the glamorized narrative of self-destruction?

Imagine, for a moment, that we treated our cars like we treat our bodies and minds. Driving non-stop, ignoring the flashing maintenance lights, and never pausing for a refuel. It’s not just impractical; it’s a highway to a breakdown. Yet, culturally, we’re told to push harder, faster, and longer.

The Science of Stopping

Neurologically, creativity and innovation aren’t birthed from exhaustion; they’re the progeny of rest. Science tells us that the brain needs downtime to process information, consolidate memories, and recharge. The most profound ideas often come when we’re staring out the window, not when we’re staring at screens.

And let’s talk productivity — another idol in the pantheon of modern work culture. Continuous work diminishes returns. Tasks that require complex cognitive skills are significantly impaired by prolonged mental exertion. In simpler terms: the longer you work without a break, the suckier your work becomes.

A Day to Stop Running

So, what’s the prescription? It’s simple: take a break. A real break. Not just a five-minute pause or a day crammed with “leisure” activities that feel as draining as your work. I’m talking about a day to genuinely stop running. A day where you disconnect, disengage, and let your mind wander into the realms of unproductivity.

This isn’t about laziness. It’s about allowing yourself the space to breathe, to think, and to be without the constant pressure to perform. It’s about understanding that to run a long race, you need to take breaks to walk, or even sit down.

The Business Case for Pausing

For the skeptics who need a business angle, consider this: companies that encourage breaks and manage workloads to prevent burnout see higher engagement, lower turnover rates, and better overall performance. It’s not just good human policy; it’s good business strategy.

And for leaders, it’s a powerful tool. Showing your team that it’s okay to take a break not only humanizes you, but it also builds trust and loyalty. It says, “I care about your well-being as much as I care about your output.”

The Art of the Pause

We need to redefine our relationship with rest. In a culture that equates busyness with importance, choosing to stop can feel like a radical act. But sometimes, the most radical acts are exactly what we need.

So, here’s my challenge to you: Take a day. Stop running. See what happens when you give yourself permission to pause. You might just find that in the silence of a stopped day, you hear the whispers of new ideas, the relief of rested neurons, and the quiet confidence that when you start running again, you’ll be ready to sprint.

Brian Fink is the author of Talk Tech To Me. He takes on the stress and strain of complex technology concepts and simplifies them for the modern recruiter. Fink’s impassioned wit and humor tackle the highs and lows of technical recruiting with a unique perspective — a perspective intended to help you find, engage, and partner with professionals.

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Brian Fink
Brian Fink

Written by Brian Fink

Executive Recruiter. ✈ #ATL ↔ #SF ✈ Building companies is my favorite. Opinions are my own. Responsibility is freedom. 🖖

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