What We Get Twisted About Leadership

Brian Fink
3 min readOct 7, 2023

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Leadership isn’t about power trips, epic battles, or Instagrammable moments. It’s a potent cocktail of humility, foresight, resilience, and service. Through the smog of ambition and ego, true leaders shine not because they want to, but because they have to. They’re the North Star in history’s ever-twisting sky. And they remind us, in the immortal words of Spider-Man’s Uncle Ben (yeah, I went there): “With great power comes great responsibility.”

So, are you up for it?

Alright, let’s dive deep into the annals of history to unpack what most folks get completely twisted about leadership:

Leadership ≠ Dictatorship

Let’s start with our boy, Julius Caesar. Dude was a military genius, no doubt. Expanded the Roman Empire, check. Ushered in a new era, check. But here’s where it gets spicy: he declared himself ‘Dictator in Perpetuity’, and look where that got him — backstabbed (literally) by his closest pals.

Leadership lesson? Power hoarding doesn’t make you a leader; it makes you a target.

Leadership is More Than Winning Battles

Flash forward to Napoleon Bonaparte. The man could win battles like nobody’s business, but mastering Europe? Different story. His ambition knew no bounds and he overreached, leading to the disastrous Russian campaign of 1812. Ultimately, he faced exile (twice!).

The takeaway? Victory isn’t leadership. Sustainable, mindful growth is.

It’s Not Always About the Frontman

Ever heard of Rosalind Franklin? Maybe not. But you’ve heard of Watson and Crick, the dynamic duo credited with discovering the structure of DNA. Now here’s the plot twist: It was Franklin’s groundbreaking X-ray diffraction image, “Photograph 51”, that gave them the insight. Leaders don’t always take center stage.

Sometimes, they’re behind the scenes, grinding it out without due credit.

Guts Over Glory

Fast forward to the 20th century. Winston Churchill — Britain’s bulldog, right? Held the line against the Nazis, inspired a nation. But rewind to the 1930s and folks laughed him off as a washed-up warmonger. His persistent warnings about Nazi Germany? Ignored. But he stuck to his guns, and when the storm hit, Britain looked to him.

Real leadership isn’t about being popular; it’s about being right when it counts.

Real Leaders Own Their Mistakes

Now, let’s talk JFK. The Bay of Pigs? A textbook example of a disaster. Instead of deflecting blame, Kennedy owned it, taking full responsibility. His approval ratings actually went UP after that.

Irony, right? Leaders don’t pass the buck; they own their mess.

Leadership Isn’t About Lone Wolves

Enter Martin Luther King Jr. While he’s celebrated for his profound impact on the Civil Rights Movement, he wasn’t alone. A symphony of voices, including Rosa Parks, Malcolm X, and countless unsung heroes, amplified the movement.

Leadership isn’t solo; it’s a chorus.

Humility is Underrated

Let’s sail to the East. Emperor Ashoka of the Maurya Dynasty led one of ancient India’s largest empires. But after the brutal Kalinga War, he was devastated by the bloodshed. So, he pivoted from conquest to spreading Buddhism and welfare.

Leaders aren’t stone statues; they’re humans who evolve.

It’s Not About Opulence

Now, take Nelson Mandela. Spent 27 years in prison, then led South Africa out of apartheid. He could’ve been bitter, vengeful, or luxurious in power. Instead? He championed reconciliation and stepped down after one term.

Leadership isn’t a gold crown; it’s a moral compass.

True Leaders Serve

Look at Queen Elizabeth II. The longest-reigning monarch, she’s seen more prime ministers than you’ve had hot dinners. She’s not just sitting around wearing tiaras; she’s dedicated her life to service.

Leaders aren’t on pedestals; they’re in the trenches, serving their people.

Takeaways?

Leadership’s messy: Caesar’s power play? Ended with knives. Napoleon? Winning battles ain’t leadership; strategy is. Rosalind Franklin? Genius behind DNA’s discovery, yet overshadowed. Churchill’s resilience? Pure gold. JFK owned up, MLK wasn’t a solo act, and Ashoka? Showed growth. Mandela’s moral compass > opulence. And Queen Liz? Dedication over decades.

Lesson? Real leadership? It’s nuanced.

Brian Fink is the author of Talk Tech To Me. He takes on the stress and strain of complex technology concepts and simplifies them for the modern recruiter. Fink’s impassioned wit and humor tackle the highs and lows of technical recruiting with a unique perspective — a perspective intended to help you find, engage, and partner with professionals.

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Brian Fink
Brian Fink

Written by Brian Fink

Executive Recruiter. ✈ #ATL ↔ #SF ✈ Building companies is my favorite. Opinions are my own. Responsibility is freedom. 🖖

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